God gives us the beautiful gift of life. He gives us the free will to live and enjoy. He gives us a chance to fall in love. He gives us the opportunity to start and family. But then there comes a time when death plays in cruel role in taking all this away from us. So God gives us the chance to smile on the memories we have. He also gives us the chance to meet our dear ones in heaven some day again. My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your wife.